Welcome to “A Simple, Village Undertaker”.
The blog is sometimes very serious, sometimes frivolous and more often than not… somewhere in between.
Occasionally political, but never politically correct.
Borrowing a theme from another blogger, I am a funeral director who occasionally blogs about funeral service. (Thanks, Ann)
I post things that are of interest to me and I simply hope that others find them of interest also.
About me:

Ray Visotski, 53, is the managing partner and former owner of George Funeral Home & Cremation Center, Aiken County’s oldest funeral home and South Carolina Cremation & Burial Society, a statewide cremation provider and Honored Provider of Veterans Funeral Care™ in South Carolina. He also is the former co-owner of three, SC cemeteries.
In December of 2011, Ray executed his succession plan and merged the two funeral homes with his colleagues at Foundation Partners Group and continues in his role of managing partner at both firms.
A Warren, NJ native, Ray is a graduate of Mount Saint Mary’s College, Emmitsburg, MD and The Cincinnati (OH) College of Mortuary Science. He has been licensed as a funeral director since 1983 and has earned licenses in New Jersey, Pennsylvania and South Carolina. As a hobby, Ray became licensed as an emergency medical technician in 1978 and later gained additional certifications. After thirty four years in emergency services, he recently retired in 2012 as a part-time firefighter/ engineer with the Aiken Department of Public Safety where he was recognized as the Firefighter of the Year, 2005. Although he no longer instructs, Ray is certified as a pistol instructor/ concealed weapons permit instructor by the National Rifle Association and the SC State Law Enforcement Division. He is the Chairman of the Board of Directors of the Southeastern Firefighters Burn Foundation, affiliated with the Joseph M. Still Burn Center in Augusta GA, the largest burn center in the USA. Additionally, he serves as a board member for “Joy in The Mourning”, Columbia, SC. He is a former board member of the Greater Aiken Chamber of Commerce and a past president of the Aiken Downtown Development Association.
In his “spare time” Ray still occasionally plays guitar with the “Chocolate Mousse” Band.
Noted accomplishments include: The Aiken Chamber of Commerce acknowledged Ray as the Businessman of the Year for 2002. George Funeral Homes is consistently recognized as the “Best Funeral Home” in Aiken County. The Senior Corp of Retired Executives (SCORE) recognized Ray as the Small Businessman of the Year in 2001 for the SC Midlands. Ray is a graduate of Leadership Aiken County, Class’2003. Ray is a past-president of the SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) Alliance of The Carolinas and was a contributing author to The SIDS Survival Guide, Second Edition. He is a past president of the SC Cemetery Association and served a three-year term on the State Perpetual Care Cemetery Board.
He is a member of the Wells Fargo Bank advisory board for the CSRA. He has sat on and/or chaired numerous non-profit boards. Ray authored a monthly opinion column in Southern Funeral Director / Alliance magazine from 1996 until 2005 and was also a contributing author for Aiken Family Magazine. Ray attends St. Mary Help of Christians Church, where he is a past-president of the school advisory board and is a Past Grand Knight for KofC Council #3684 and commander of Assembly # 1074. He and is wife, Alicia, have three daughters and four, black Labs.
I was searching for news about Fr. Paul Redmond and came across your weekend trip to the Mount last year. I was a student there myself in 90-94 and my father was the admissions director for many years (Larry Riordan). Do you go back to reunions?
Your blog post was a wonderful tribute to the town and the school; as my father worked there, I spent most of my years growing up going to spring and fall picnics there and attending Lincoln Phillips soccer camp in the summer. My father’s best friends were Dr. Chris Smith of the Sociology Dept and Dan Hallinan, who worked in the Finance Dept where I believed a Topper worked. I spent a summer on the grounds crew and met Mark Topper, her son, a local who was in my class but I had never met until then. It was great to meet all those guys (Sam, Kim, Jack) and then see them around campus during the school year and feel like I knew the “behind the scenes” story of the school (like knowing the production assistants on a movie set).
Thanks for your post.
Michael,
Thank you for the two notes. Your dad, assisted by John Gill, helped me get into the Mount. Fr. Forker was a dear family friend and I was destined to attend The Mount since I was in 5th grade. Believe it or not, Chris Smith and I stay in touch and we talked just about a month ago. He was always one of my favorite profs and taught me the meaning of the word “Paradigm”…..twenty cents.
God brought him and I together a few years ago when he had his accident and I think we will always have a special bond because of that. (I will send this link to him)
I remember Dan and Sam, but have not had any contact with them since I was there. I was visiting the Mount on the weekend of Jack Topper’s retirement dinner and got to speak briefly with John Gill.
Attending The Mount was an experience I didn’t learn to appreciate until I grew older. Now, it is my most favorite place to visit. As a matter of fact, I will be there later this month on the 27th & 28th. Please give my regards to your dad and thank you for the comments. I hope to attend my 30th reunion next Spring and look forward to hearing from you and maybe meeting you….RJV
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I’m a former funeral home employee in Buffalo, NY. You have some great posts.
Ray, I have nominated you for the Family of Bloggers Award in this post: http://davidkanigan.com/2012/10/06/1-year-and-counting/. You are under no obligation to accept. I just wanted to thank you for your followership and your friendship. Dave
Congratulations ~ I’ve nominated you for the WP Family Award! Please stop by to pick up your award ~ Hugs to you! http://misifusa.wordpress.com/2013/04/20/a-la-familia-wp-family-awards/